@PeterGoertzen, Thanks for your input. I’ve been mulling over your comments on being the right person, instead of trying to DO all the right things. I thought about how it can be frustrating to ask questions and receive no response. Yet, if I allow myself to become frustrated & upset about the situation, all my ‘strategies’ for her won’t do much good. Feeling compassion for her is so important. I think that’s a big part of “being” versus “doing.” Thanks for sharing!